I'm not going to pretend that you haven't suffered, but don't act like you're innocent in this situation.

You aren't the only one who's lost people. Our ongoing battle with your Empire has cost the lives of many, not to mention those who the Ascians have directly killed.

[She pauses. Should she stop here? Probably. Is she going to stop here? There's not a chance in hell.]

Of course, I'm sure you wouldn't understand any of that. Death only counts when it's one of your "perfect beings," doesn't it?